attached are links to two checklists on sexual interests, you can fill them out with your partner(s) (or on your own if you want). it's a great way to start a healthy conversation about sex before heading into the bedroom and to find out kink/sexual interest compatibility. the first link is a spreadsheet from "bad girls bible" and it's largely bdsm/kink centric. the second link is a pdf for general sexual interest discussion and while i have not used this one i've looked it over and it seems like a great resource for those wanting to start a conversation about their interests and their definitions of healthy and good sex.
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1WtGl55Rouq8qh9d4Cn5_o4l-9HHPOBWZxaOuA-CQuik/edit#gid=0Â
https://www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Sexual-Interests-Checklist.pdf
Thank you so much Mik!!! This is so amazing and helpful!!!